There are often times...that i'm just not in the mood to be spanked...or fucked up the ass...or cuckolded...or locked in chastity...or have my privacy invaded when i'm in the bathroom...or spend the entire evening...on my knees holding an ashtray while my Wife watches television....etc...etc...But i am submissive to Q's wants...needs...and wishes...And the benefits from the dynamics of our relationship far outweighs whatever petty...selfish mood i may occasionally be in....